Ask My Little Buddha

February 27, 2008 | Print

We just spent a week visiting grandparents. Since we got home, my 18 month old son seems bored with his toys. His grandparents entertained him more than I do. How do I get him back to his usual playing on his own?

Grandparents often play with our kids differently than we do–joining in activities, suggesting what to do and generally engaging kids with more excitement. Kids usually love the change of pace, and appreciate the attention.

Then back at home, kids may take a little time to pick up their self-directed play. Their favorite toy truck may seem dull without a grandparent to make vroom, vroom sounds and start a race.

Our toddlers seem more frustrated, our preschoolers claim they’re bored. Time and patience is key. We get outside, more trips to the park where they can be active and tire themselves. We also rotate toys–put some away and others in new places to freshen up their usual options.

Usually a few days later, we feel back in our routine.

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